Capítulo 3: ¿Es la criogenia para mí?

¿Y si me despierto solo?

Por
Alessia Casali
13 de noviembre de 2025

The isolation fear haunts many preservation considerations. You imagine revival decades or centuries hence. Everyone you knew is dead or dispersed. Your entire social world has vanished. You face radical dislocation: temporal refugee in an unrecognizable future, severed from all connection that made life meaningful. This vision feels unbearable enough to outweigh preservation's other appeals.

This fear deserves serious attention rather than dismissal. Humans are fundamentally social. Meaning, identity, and wellbeing emerge primarily through relationships. Imagining existence without anyone who knows you, anyone who shares your reference points, anyone connected to your previous life feels less like continuation and more like existential exile.

But examine the assumption underlying this fear: that you'd wake truly alone, that organizations performing revival would simply restore consciousness then abandon you to navigate incomprehensible future unaided. This seems profoundly unlikely for several reasons.

Any civilization capable of revival possesses extraordinary technological sophistication. They've solved molecular biology problems we currently consider science fiction. They can restore neural patterns, repair cellular damage, and return consciousness to preserved tissue. This capability implies massive advancement in medical science, coordination capacity, and resource availability.

Would such a civilization restore people then provide no support? The scenario makes little sense. Revival isn't like waking from normal sleep where you simply continue from where you left off. It requires massive intervention, careful process, and significant resource investment. Organizations undertaking this would almost certainly provide integration support.

Consider analogies. When refugees arrive in new countries, support systems exist: language training, cultural orientation, assistance navigating unfamiliar institutions. When prisoners release after long sentences, reintegration programs help them adjust to changed society. When anyone faces major life transition, support structures typically exist.

Revival represents far more extreme transition than these examples. The disorientation would be profound. But this very extremity suggests support necessity. No competent organization would invest resources in revival then ignore the obvious need for integration assistance.

What might this support include? At minimum: explanation of what happened, orientation to current time and circumstances, assistance understanding technological and cultural changes, help establishing basic functioning in the new context. Likely also: psychological support for processing the transition, community connection with others experiencing similar displacement, resources for rebuilding life in unfamiliar circumstances.

Other preserved people create additional social possibility. You wouldn't necessarily be alone even among revived individuals. Others from your approximate era might revive around the same time. You'd share common reference points, similar disorientation, and basis for connection that people native to the future wouldn't provide.

This creates natural community among revived individuals. Like immigrants from same country connecting in new land, like veterans of specific war recognizing each other's experience, revived people would likely form bonds based on shared temporal origin and displacement experience.

Some preservation members arrange explicitly for group revival. Friends who preserve together might specify desire for roughly simultaneous restoration if possible. Families choosing preservation maintain possibility of reunion. These arranged connections could provide immediate social foundation in otherwise alien future.

The nature of future society matters enormously but remains fundamentally unknowable. We can reasonably expect more technological sophistication, but cultural characteristics, social structures, and treatment of temporal refugees remain pure speculation. However, some considerations provide reassurance.

Societies capable of revival have presumably solved resource scarcity problems that create most contemporary social dysfunction. They likely possess post-scarcity economics where meeting basic needs requires minimal resources. This suggests less desperation, more capacity for supporting unusual cases, and potentially more welcoming environment for displaced individuals.

Advanced societies might view revived people as valuable historical resources. Your direct experience of earlier eras, your knowledge of cultural context now lost, your perspective from different time, all potentially hold significant interest. You might find yourself welcomed specifically because of your temporal origin rather than despite it.

But acknowledge the legitimate concern beneath the fear. Even with support, even with other revived people around, even with welcoming future society, you'd still face profound dislocation. Everyone from your original life would be gone unless they also preserved. Your entire cultural context would be history. The world would be unrecognizable in many ways.

This dislocation matters. It's real loss, real challenge, real grief. The fear isn't irrational. But is it severe enough to justify refusing preservation entirely?

Consider the alternative. Conventional death eliminates not just all your previous connections but all future connection possibility. You don't wake up alone; you don't wake up at all. The choice isn't between comfortable continuity and isolated displacement. It's between possible displacement with support and certain permanent cessation.

From this framing, waking alone in strange future starts to seem less terrible than not waking at all. At least you'd be conscious, capable of forming new connections, able to find meaning in unfamiliar context. The human capacity for adaptation, for finding belonging in new circumstances, for building meaningful life after major disruption, suggests possibility rather than guaranteed misery.

Historical precedents show human resilience. People who immigrate to radically different cultures, who survive wars and displacement, who experience major life disruption, often rebuild satisfying lives. They mourn what's lost while engaging what's present. They form new connections while honoring old ones. They adapt while maintaining core identity.

You'd face more extreme version of this challenge, but the underlying human capacities would remain. Your ability to connect with others, find meaning in experiences, adapt to new circumstances, learn unfamiliar systems, and build satisfying life wouldn't disappear just because time had passed and context had changed.

The solitude fear also contains assumption about your own personality and needs. Some people deeply require connection to specific individuals and would genuinely struggle without them. Others adapt more easily to new social contexts. Neither is better, but knowing your own tendencies helps evaluate whether isolation represents deal-breaking concern or manageable challenge.

If you're someone who has moved cities or countries, changed careers, rebuilt social networks after major disruptions, you have evidence of your adaptability. If such changes felt devastating and you struggled profoundly, you have evidence that similar future challenges might exceed your coping capacity.

The concern about waking alone often reflects broader questions about identity and continuity. Would you still be recognizably yourself in radically different context? Would your values, interests, and personality persist, or would the displacement so transform you that revival feels less like continuation and more like replacement?

These philosophical questions lack clear answers but matter for evaluating isolation fears. If you believe identity persists across major change, if you trust your core self would remain recognizable even in alien circumstances, then isolation becomes more manageable. If you view identity as fundamentally contextual, inseparable from specific social environment, then displacement threatens selfhood itself.

Practical considerations help too. Before preservation, record extensive information about yourself, your relationships, your cultural context, your perspective on your era. These records could help future supporters understand you and assist integration. They'd provide continuity thread between preserved person and revived one.

Some preservation members create detailed archives: video recordings, written reflections, documentation of relationships and experiences. These serve multiple purposes including helping revival organizations understand the person they're restoring and providing the revived individual with connection to their own past.

The timing uncertainty adds another dimension. You don't know whether you'd wake fifty years hence or five hundred. Fifty years creates less radical displacement, more possibility that some contemporaries remain alive, more cultural continuity. Five hundred years means everyone is gone and transformation is total. This uncertainty makes evaluation harder but also means worst-case scenarios remain uncertain rather than guaranteed.

Ultimately, the isolation fear requires honest confrontation. Imagine the scenario: you wake in unfamiliar future, supported by organizations but disconnected from everyone you knew. How does that feel? Is it bearable? Could you build meaningful life from that starting point? Does the possibility of consciousness in strange circumstances outweigh the alternative of no consciousness at all?

Your answers are personal. Some people find the isolation prospect genuinely worse than death. For them, life's value resides so completely in specific relationships that displaced continuation holds no appeal. This is legitimate position deserving respect.

Others find that even isolated continuation beats cessation. They'd prefer waking alone in strange future to not waking at all. They trust their capacity to adapt, form new connections, and find meaning in unfamiliar context. This is equally legitimate.

The question has no objectively correct answer. It requires examining what makes your existence valuable to you, whether that value could persist in radically altered circumstances, and whether uncertain but possible connection outweighs certain permanent disconnection.

If isolation fears feel insurmountable, preservation may not serve you well. If you believe you'd adapt and value consciousness enough that even isolated revival appeals, preservation aligns with your values. Either way, the fear deserves serious consideration rather than dismissal. It points toward fundamental questions about what makes existence worthwhile and whether that worthwhileness could survive radical displacement.