Chapter 3: Is cryonics for me?

An intrinsically personal decision

By
Alessia Casali
November 13, 2025

No one can decide whether cryopreservation aligns with your life except you. This isn't a choice that yields to logical proofs, cost-benefit analyses, or expert recommendations in any straightforward way. It touches something deeper: how you relate to your own existence, what you believe about consciousness and continuity, how you value future possibilities against present certainties.

Some people hear about cryopreservation and immediately recognize it as obviously worthwhile. The logic feels clear: life has value, death eliminates that value permanently, preservation maintains possibility. For them, the question isn't whether to pursue it but how quickly they can arrange coverage. The decision feels less like choosing and more like acknowledging what was already true about their values.

Others encounter the same information and feel nothing but skepticism or discomfort. The whole concept strikes them as strange, hubristic, or pointless. They don't see continuation beyond natural lifespan as desirable even if possible. For them, the technology's feasibility matters less than the fundamental question of whether indefinite existence appeals at all.

Both responses are valid. Neither group is more rational, courageous, or enlightened. They simply relate differently to existence and its boundaries.

Your relationship with mortality shapes this decision profoundly. Some people maintain active awareness of death's presence, feeling urgency about limited time. Others think about it rarely, comfortable with vague assumptions about natural endings. Some fear death intensely. Others feel curious neutrality or even occasional welcoming toward eventual rest.

None of these orientations predicts your cryopreservation decision cleanly. People who fear death sometimes reject preservation because confronting mortality's details feels overwhelming. People comfortable with death sometimes choose preservation precisely because they're not afraid to examine options carefully. The psychological landscape is complex and individual.

Your conception of personal identity matters too. If you believe consciousness is fundamentally continuous, that the person revived from preservation would genuinely be you, then the decision framework differs from someone who sees identity as moment-to-moment and doubts whether restored biological patterns constitute the same person. Philosophy of mind isn't just abstract here. It determines whether preservation feels like extending your life or creating a copy.

Cultural and familial context creates another layer. Growing up in traditions that emphasize acceptance of natural cycles might make preservation feel transgressive. Coming from backgrounds that celebrate technological progress and human agency might make it feel obvious. Neither cultural inheritance determines your choice, but both influence what feels natural versus what requires justification.

Religious and spiritual beliefs intersect unpredictably with cryopreservation. Some religious people reject it as interfering with divine plans or natural order. Others embrace it as using God-given intelligence and resources responsibly. Some find theological frameworks that accommodate preservation easily. Others face irreconcilable conflicts. Your specific beliefs matter more than broad religious categories.

Even within families, responses vary wildly. One sibling finds preservation compelling while another finds it absurd. Partners sometimes align immediately on the decision or discover unexpected disagreement. Parents and children may hold completely different views. These differences don't reflect failure to understand the facts. They reflect genuine diversity in how people value existence and relate to its boundaries.

The decision also sits within your broader life narrative. Someone who has consistently pursued life extension through health optimization, preventive medicine, and longevity research might see cryopreservation as natural continuation. Someone who has made peace with aging and views it as meaningful process might see preservation as refusing wisdom that comes with acceptance. Both narratives are coherent. Neither is objectively correct.

Your current life satisfaction influences the choice too, though not always predictably. Deeply fulfilled people sometimes choose preservation because life is good and they want more. Others feel complete with what they've experienced and ready for natural endings. Struggling people sometimes want preservation as hope for better futures. Others want relief from continuation. Present happiness doesn't determine future preference.

Financial values matter beyond raw affordability. Some people comfortably spend discretionary income on possibilities and experiences. Others prefer tangible goods or saving for certain futures. Neither approach is wrong, but they create different contexts for evaluating preservation costs. What feels like reasonable investment to one person feels like wasteful speculation to another.

Risk tolerance creates another personal variable. Cryopreservation involves profound uncertainty. The technology might never work. You're investing resources in deeply speculative possibility. High risk tolerance makes this feel acceptable or even exciting. Low risk tolerance makes it feel irresponsible regardless of potential upside. Neither perspective is irrational given different baseline orientations toward uncertainty.

Your relationship with the future matters enormously. Some people feel intense curiosity about how technology, society, and human capability will develop. They desperately want to see what happens next. Others feel little pull toward distant futures, focusing instead on present and near-term concerns. Neither orientation is superior, but they create entirely different relationships with preservation's value proposition.

How you conceptualize personal projects and completion affects the decision too. If you maintain long lists of things you want to learn, experience, and accomplish, preservation might feel like protecting unfinished business. If you view life more as ongoing present engagement without requiring completion of specific goals, preservation's appeal might be less obvious.

Social orientation plays a role as well. Highly relationship-focused people might choose preservation largely because of connection possibilities with others who preserve. More independently-oriented people might make the choice based purely on personal continuation desires. Neither is more valid, but they emphasize different aspects of what makes existence valuable.

Some people need certainty before committing to major decisions. They want clear evidence, established track records, and minimal ambiguity. Cryopreservation offers none of this. Others are comfortable committing to uncertain ventures based on reasoning about possibilities. These different decision-making styles create different relationships with preservation regardless of the underlying facts.

Your age and life stage matter too. Young people often feel invulnerable and struggle to imagine need for preservation. Middle-aged people facing mortality's reality sometimes suddenly see preservation's appeal. Elderly people sometimes feel they've lived enough or sometimes desperately want more time. Life stage influences perspective but doesn't determine it.

The decision also reflects how you balance present versus future resource allocation. Preservation costs money that could benefit you or others now. It represents investment in speculative future benefit. People weight these tradeoffs differently based on their economic situations, values about intergenerational resource transfer, and beliefs about where resources create most value.

Ultimately, no external authority can determine whether cryopreservation suits you. Experts can explain the science, economics, and logistics. They cannot tell you whether continuation appeals, whether uncertainty feels acceptable, whether the costs justify the possibilities, whether preservation aligns with your conception of good life well lived.

The decision requires sitting with difficult questions that have no objective answers. Do I want to exist indefinitely if possible? Do I believe preserved patterns constitute genuine continuation of me? Do I value uncertain future possibility enough to invest present resources? Am I comfortable with radical uncertainty about revival timing and context? Do my relationships and personal projects justify extraordinary continuation efforts?

These questions resist formulaic resolution. You might answer them differently at different times. Your initial response might be strong conviction that shifts with reflection. Or you might remain genuinely uncertain despite extensive consideration. All of this is normal and appropriate for a decision this profound and personal.

Some people defer the decision indefinitely, uncomfortable committing either way. Others choose quickly based on immediate resonance. Some revisit the question repeatedly over years. Others decide once and feel settled. None of these approaches is wrong. The decision's timing and process should match your temperament and circumstances.

What matters most is engaging honestly with what you actually believe and value rather than what you think you should believe, what others expect, or what feels socially acceptable. Cryopreservation is unusual enough that conventional wisdom provides little guidance. You must determine for yourself whether preservation's possibilities justify its costs, uncertainties, and unconventionality.

This is your existence, your continuation, your relationship with mortality and future. The choice belongs entirely to you. Make it based on what resonates with who you are and what you value, not on external pressure, social expectations, or abstract should-statements. Whether you choose preservation or conventional mortality, the decision should reflect your authentic relationship with your own life and its boundaries.